What are you Working For?

No, I'm not only referring to work here but any goal you're trying to achieve right now.

Before you can make progress towards any improvement or goal you need to ask yourself one all-important question. This step is often forgotten..

Ask yourself why.

Why are you doing whatever it is that you are doing?

If you focus on the why's behind what you think you want you will be so much more certain to succeed. You will be clearer when you need to decide. Your actions will be designed to help you make your dream reality.

Often low self esteem takes hold because of confusion about your purpose and reasons for what you're doing. Self-doubt grows out of confusion and indecision.

Don't be content to ask yourself what you want but also ask why you want it?

Go deeper and you will understand yourself better and be surer of your path ahead.

Always ask yourself why and what it is that you're really in search of. When you spend time digging into your real reasons for your decisions - you will find they are not the reasons you've been telling yourself for so long.

In the same way, looking at the why's may show you that what you're trying to achieve is not really what you need.

Focus on the why's and be clear about what you want...

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Find the Good

Just heard this quote and thought you might like it...

"Find the good. It's all around you. Find it, showcase it, and you'll start believing it," Jesse Owens

You always have a choice to focus on the good in your life or the bad.

Why not try changing your focus today?

What is the enemy of Depression?

How are things with you today?

I've got another quick message about beating depression for you,
please read this and use it because it can change your life...

How does depression do such a great job of wrecking your life?

What is the worst thing that it does to you?

It stops you from taking action.

Action is the most important factor in moving your life forward.
No action means you cannot take opportunities. Inaction also
makes you confused and unhappy. It allows others to take the
advantage and you allow this to happen. Inaction can be the
result of fear or stress but really inaction is
depression's partner.

So if you want to overcome depression you need only to take
action.

Now depression is a clever thing, it is not stupid, it is your
brain working against itself. Depression works to stop you taking
action. It crushes your ability to make decisions by confusing
you, stressing you, making you angry and sad and then it makes
you tired and takes away your motivation.

What can you do to help yourself:

1. relax and listen to calm music
2. read some inspiring quotes
3. watch a comedy on tv
4. smile

Do something! Anything! But start to take action. Don't accept
depression. A positive step in the right direction means a step
away from depression.

I have suffered from depression as bad as it gets and I know the
choice is either give in or take action to move forward. The
first step is always the most difficult...

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Until next week,
take care,

Karl Perera
author of "Self Esteem Secrets"

Strengths and weaknesses

I would like to talk about strengths and weaknesses today.

There are two types of thinking when it comes to your strengths and weaknesses.

Some say "work on your weaknesses and make them into strengths."

Others say "work on your strengths and ignore your weaknesses."

Which is right? Which do you agree with?

I believe that from my own life I believe that if you want to be successful (whatever that means to you) you need to do the following as soon as possible:

1. Know your strengths and weaknesses
2. Decide which weaknesses you have to improve. Those you absolutely must improve.
3. Concentrate your work, business, goals and life on your strengths.
4. Move away from the things you are weak at unless you really should not avoid them.

I tend to be closer to the second answer at he start of this post, then don't I?

If you want to reach your potential and become a success in any area of business or in life you need to play to your strengths. If you are good at mathematics, don't be a hairdresser. If you are good with your hands, don't work in an office job.

Develop the things you do well and do them even better, this is where you can be better than others. The best contribution you can make in the world is doing what you can do best.

In business know what you are good at and do that. Leave others to do what you cannot do well.

Chances are what you do well, you love and what you are weak at is what you do not like.

I think the wise person follows a path that takes them towards doing more of what he or she loves and is good at. Ditch the rest and you can start to be happy.

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A poem about Friendship

Here is a poem I received this week:

Friendship

Whether by
strange coincidence
or divine guidance
in the course of our life
we cross paths with
many people.

Some move towards us,
others move away.
Some we choose to remember,
others to forget.

But with a special few
we seem to have no choice,
for each has made an impact
on the other, and their
memory will live on forever.

These people we call friends.
You, to me, are such a one.

– Dick Innes
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Affirmations.

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You do make a difference!

I came across this WONDERFUL video today and wanted to share it with you...

You make a difference in the world. Someone somewhere respects you and someone loves you but guess what...

You need to share yourself with the world and try hard to make others feel good.

Watch this video TO THE END

It's worth it!!!



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